Islam for Parents

Practical Tips for Raising Children & Useful Resources for Your Parenting Needs

Supplication before eating

This is a very simple dua to teach your children and will inshaAllah ensure there is blessings in the food that is eaten. Also remember to remind your children to eat with their right hands and eat from the food that is closer to them. Continue Reading…

Islamic Word Search #010 - Jannah Edition

Word Search #010 is available by clicking the link below. Insha Allah this word search will familiarise your children with some words related to Paradise (Jannah). Continue Reading…

The Ideal Muslim Mother - Free PDF eBook Download

This eBook is an extract from the popular, “The Ideal Muslimah” book by By Dr. Muhammad ‘Ali Al-Hashimi.

One of the chapters was very relevant to Islamic parenting so we extracted only this chapter and made it available for download here. Chapter 5 is titled, “The Muslimah and Her Children” and contains the following:

  • She understands his great responsibility towards her children
  • She uses the best methods in bringing them up
  • She equally treats her sons and daughters equally
  • She demonstrates her love and affection for them
  • She does not pray against her children
  • She is alert to everything that may have an influence on them
  • She instils good behavior and attitudes in them Continue Reading…

Obeying Parents even after they Die

So what can we do for our parents if they have passed away?

The answer is there in the Hadith reported by Abu Osaid Ibn Assaaidi who said that we were near the Prophet (peace be upon him) when a man of Banu Salma came to Him and asked: “Ya RasulAllah (peace be upon him), Is there any obedience to parents left that I can show to them after their demise?” He said: “Yes! (You can be obedient to them) by praying for them, to seek forgiveness for them by fulfilling their instructions after their death, by keeping affinity to those who are not connected with you but through them and to honour their friends” (Abu Dawud and Ibn Maja)


How to Treat Old Parents

Every human being having reached old age needs more service and care. The society must not ignore the rights of senior members of the community. Allah Most High said:

“And lower to them shoulders with humility and meekness and say my Lord have mercy upon them (both) as they brought me up when I was little.”

When we were weak and in need our parents did hard labour in nourishing and rearing us. They have performed numerous sacrifices for our comfort and welfare. They were the main source of our safety from a number of difficulties. As Allah Most High has mentioned we must sincerely ponder over the many hardships, which were taken by our parents for our comfort.

Learning Arabic through The Quran - Verbs 1-5

The five Arabic words we’ll be covering today occur in the Qur’an over 200 times combined! This is because each of these words (and their various forms) are repeated very often. The 5 verbs included in the below PDF document are:

  • To Bewitch (occurs about 49 times in the Qur’an)
  • To Plot (43)
  • To Transgress (54)
  • To Understand (49)
  • To Perceive (29)

For each word, there are at least 5 examples of it being used in the Qur’an. This makes remembering the words easier inshaAllah. View or download this small and helpful PDF using the below link. Continue Reading…

Teaching Children to Eat with their Right Hand

The Prophet (peace be upon him) commanded people to eat with their right hands and forbade them to eat with their left hands. He said, “The Shaytaan eats with his left hand and drinks with his left hand.” Narrated by Muslim (2020). This implies that eating with the left hand is haraam, and this is the correct view, because the one who eats with his left hand is either a shaytaan (a devil), or he is imitating the Shaytaan.

Below is a little poem to teach your kids which is there left hand (so they don’t using it).

WHICH HAND DO I EAT WITH?

  • Which hand is my right hand?
  • It’s sometimes hard to know.
  • But I have a special way
  • That I will share and show.
  • Put both hands out in front of you.
  • Then it is easy to tell.
  • Cause when you straighten out your thumbs
  • The left hand makes an “L”

Help Your Kids Memorise Quran - Progress Chart

To make it more fun for your children to memorise Qur’an and to add an element of fun to it, you could download and print the below one page progress chart of Juz ‘Amma. As your child memorises a Chapter, you can get them to colour it in.

Download Progress Chart (right click and select ’save as’)

Learning The Basics of Arabic Grammar - Free eBook

This small eBook is ideal for those beginning to learn the Arabic language. It covers the basics of the following topics:

  • Subject and Predicate
  • Masculine and Feminine Genders
  • Numbers: Singular, Dual, and Plural
  • Adjective and its Noun
  • The Possessive Case or Genitive
  • Interrogatives
  • Pronouns
  • The Prepositions
  • Subject, Verb, and Object
  • The Tense
  • Past Tense
  • Imperfect Tense
  • Imperative and Negative Imperative
  • Derived Forms of the verb Continue Reading…

Dawah to Non-Muslim Parents

Question: My wife’s mother has in effect cut herself off from her daughter in recent times. Whilst there was some form of communication it was often quite turbulent and heated. My wife has tried a number of times to re-establish contact yet her mother refuses, quite stubbornly, to reply. We are both reverts and have often felt that our acceptance of the religion has played some part in her mother’s negative attitude. I would be grateful if you could advise us on what me might possibly do to rectify this situation.
Jazak Allahu Khairan

Answer: Praise be to Allah. The reactions of non-muslim mothers towards their children’s embracement of Islam varies. Some mothers are peaceful and passive considering this as a personal matter which does not affect the relationship between the mother and her son or daughter. In such cases more piety by the child towards his or her mother will make the mother admire and respect Islam.

Other mothers adopts a more stubborn approach at the beginning but the mother finally gives in and accepts the new religion as a fact of life after she sees the child’s determination and persistence which could lead the mother herself to embrace Islam.

In the third case we find that some mothers are constantly stubborn to the extent that Continue Reading…

Muslim Parents and Children’s Generation Gap

This slide show looks at the muslim family in western countries. It is based on research in North America but other western conuntries have similar environments.

It is focused more-so at the immigrant Muslim parent and their children being raised in western countries.

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Islamic Word Search #009 - Prayer Edition

Word Search #009 is available by clicking the link below. Insha Allah this word search will familiarise your children with some concepts of Prayer. Continue Reading…

Islamic Word Search #008 - Wudhoo Edition

Word Search #008 is available by clicking the link below. Insha Allah this word search will familiarise your children with some concepts of Wudhoo. Continue Reading…

How Should Arabic Language be Taught?

I hate Arabic class!

After years of teaching in Muslim schools, Sunday schools and summer schools, this is the one universal phrase uttered by children and teenagers of all ages. I have never once heard, “I love Arabic class.”

Even if the children like the teacher, they rarely like the subject. Why is that the case? After all, we adults emphasize that Arabic is the language of Allah’s last Message: the Holy Qur’an.  To know Arabic is to have the clearest understanding of what Allah wants of us in this life.

But the youth never budge in their dislike. Can it be the youthful rebellion against learning in general? Maybe for a few, but I remember in high school that my favorite subject was Spanish. And in junior high I liked English very much.  I even wanted to take Chinese language courses but there were none offered in my home town.

I’ve met Muslim kids who attend public schools, quite a few in fact, who say they love Spanish class. I even know some who are taking German or Korean in their schools- and they’re so excited! So why don’t the kids like Arabic class?

Are you ready for the answer? It may surprise you and you may not agree with me. But what I’m telling you is my heart-felt observation with the goal of getting people to learn Arabic. Everyone should learn it. Allah’s revelation is waiting to be unlocked in its entirety and we’re Continue Reading…

How to know if your Ramadan has been accepted

By Tawfique Chowdhury

May Allah the great accept from us and you! You have fasted and prayed and wept and begged Allah the Great and now is your time to rejoice as His mercy and forgiveness envelopes the Universe. May Allah shower you and your family with His choicest rewards and please you on the Day you meet Him just as you are pleased today.

A lot of people ask the question: How do I know if Allah has accepted my Ramadan? How do I know that my deeds were not rejected, but accepted and written in my scale of good deeds? And you too must ask this question, since Ali radiallahu anhu said: “Do not be so concerned about the number of deeds as the acceptance of it. Continue Reading…

The Ideal Muslim Father - Free PDF eBook Download

This eBook is an extract from the popular, “The Ideal Muslim” book by By Dr. Muhammad ‘Ali Al-Hashimi.

One of the chapters was very relevant to Islamic parenting so we extracted only this chapter and made it available for download here. Chapter 5 is titled, “The Muslim and His Children” and contains the following:

  • He understands his great responsibility towards his children
  • He uses the best methods in bringing them up
  • He demonstrates his love and affection for them
  • He spends on them, willingly and generously
  • He does not discriminate between sons and daughters in his affection and spending
  • He is alert to everything that may have an influence on them
  • He equally treats all his children
  • He instills good behavior and attitudes in them Continue Reading…

70 Matters Related to Fasting - Free eBook

This 26 page book is by IslamQA’s Sheikh Muhammed Salih Al-Munajjid. It covers the following topics:

  • Definition of Siyaam (fasting)
  • Ruling on fasting
  • The virtues of fasting
  • The benefits of fasting
  • Etiquette and Sunnah of fasting
  • What should be done during this great month
  • Some of the ahkaam (rulings) on fasting
  • How the onset of Ramadaan is determined
  • Who is obliged to fast?
  • Travellers, the sick and the elderly
  • Niyyah (intention) in fasting
  • When to start and stop fasting
  • Things that break the fast
  • Rulings on fasting for women

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Stories of the Sahaba - 51 stories in pdf format

This 174 page eBook contains stories of 51 Companions of the Prophet (peace be upon him).

These companions are: Abdullah Ibn Abbas, Abdullah Ibn Hudhafah As-Sahm, Abdullah Ibn Jahsh, Abdullah Ibn Mas’ud, Abdullah Ibn Sailam, Abdullah Ibn Umar, Abdullah Ibn Umm Maktum, Abdur-Rahman Ibn Awf, Abu Ayyub Al-Ansari, Abu Dharr Al-Ghifari, Abu Dujana, Abu Musa Al-Ashari, Abu Hurayrah, Abu Sufyan Ibn Al-Harith, Abu Ubaydah ibn Al-Jarrah, Abu-d Dardaa, Abu-l Aas ibn ar-Rabiah, Adiyy Ibn Hatim, Al-Baraa Ibn Malil Al-Ansari, Amr Ibn Al-Jamuh, An-Nuayman Ibn Amr, An-Numan Ibn Muqarrin, At-Tufayl Ibn Amr Ad-Dawsi, Habib Ibn Zayd Al-Ansari, Hakim Ibn Hazm, Hudhayfah Ibn Al-Yaman, Ikrimah Ibn Abi Jahl, Jafar Ibn Abi Talib, Julaybib, Khabbab Ibn Al-Aratt, Muadh Ibn Jabal, Muhammad Ibn Maslamah, Musab Ibn Umayr, Nuaym Ibn Masud, Rabiah Ibn Kab, Sad Ibn Abi Waqqas, Said Ibn Aamir Al-Jumahi, Said Ibn Zayd, Salim Mawla Abi Hudhayfah, Salman Al-Farsi, Suhayb Ar-Rumi, Suhayl Ibn Amr, Talhah ibn Ubaydullah, Thabit Ibn Qays, Thumamah Ibn Uthal, Ubayy Ibn Kab, Umayr Ibn Sad Al-Ansari, Umayr Ibn Wahb, Uqbah Ibn Amir, Utbah Ibn Ghazwan, Zayd Al-Khayr.

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Islamic Word Search #006

Word Search #006 is available by clicking the link below. Insha Allah This word search will teach your child the following:

  • Some more of Allah’s attributes
  • How a Muslim should behave
  • Names of some Prophets

Continue Reading…

Islamic Word Search #005

Word Search #005 is available by clicking the link below. Insha Allah This word search will teach your child the following:

  • Some more of Allah’s attributes
  • Some ways to give dawah
  • How Islam is a religion for all people

Continue Reading…